Survival 101 for Filipinos AbroadMay 6, 2020
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Sometimes, especially in the first few months, living abroad can make you a little homesick. No matter how beautiful the city, there’s always a part of you that has a connection to your home and to your roots—especially when it comes to food. While I made my home away from family for a few years, there was always one thing I looked for: a huge heaping of extremely sour sinigang that would make my lips pucker at first sip, a warming bowl that would get me through winter. Whatever I tried to do, it just never felt exactly the same when recreating it in the tiny kitchen of my flat. It’s not all bad however; here are some quick tips to make you feel a little less homesick when living abroad.
1. Find a Filipino community and Attend Every Fiesta and Food Event Possible
What music festival? The real party is at the annual barrio fiesta. Most embassies in major cities hold one, which comes complete with entertainment from one of our homegrown TV networks and a whole lot of Pinoy food.
2. Make Pinoy Connections (So You Have Someone to Drag to the Nearest Pinoy Restaurant If You’re Feeling Homesick)
Make some friends that will make you feel close to home; there’s always bound to be a contingency you can get along with in your area. This is perfect if you feel like watching some TFC and getting lechon kawali in the nearest Filipino restaurant; drag them along, too!
3. Save the Nearest Pinoy Grocery on Your Google Maps
If you’re tired of buying local goods in your nearest supermarket, try finding a Filipino grocery nearby. Even the smell of the store will make you feel at home. There will be bottles of whatever you need to flavor the dish you’re trying to recreate from your lola’s recipes, or any snack that will bring you back to the Philippines.
4. Stock Up on Packets of Soup and Packs of Local Chips
While you’re at it, don’t forget to stock up on those packets that will create instant dishes or soups for a quick fix when you need one. Buy enough Chippy or dried mangoes to last you for weeks—that will be enough to cure your homesickness!
5. When Someone Visits, Beg Them to Bring You Something From Home. (Or Ask Your Loved Ones to Send You a Care Package.)
If you’re really feeling down in the dumps, a care package every few months is sure to lift your spirits. I never remember being happier than when my mom sent me cans of corned beef and boxes of Quickmelt cheese because my local store didn’t stock it. I made crispy corned beef for breakfast everyday for weeks.
6. Assimilate into Culture and Make Yourself at Home—But Never Forget Your Roots!
The true way to survive being abroad is to really try and make yourself at home. Make a few connections, try local food, love your adopted home. But never forget where you came from—cook your foreign buddies a palayok of sinigang with rice.